...Spiritual Intelligence (SQ) develops with tolerance and forgiveness; Emotional Intelligence (EQ) develops with adapting to the changing environment and Mental Intelligence (IQ) develops with repetition and practice.
P.S. Interaction plays a great role in our interpersonal relationship. We can suppose being ‘Happy’ to be denoted by a plus sign (+) and being ‘Unhappy’ by a minus sign (-). Though, it is hard to find another person getting ‘Happy’ (+) when someone is ‘Happy’ (+) say after winning a huge lottery, it is called ‘”Mudita” or Joy (+,+). Mudita is a Hindi word used in Buddism to explain the feeling of joy. Herein, the ‘Happy’ emotion matches between the two persons (+,+) which is rare in this materialistic world.
The usual reactive emotion is ‘Unhappy’ after seeing someone ‘Happy’ which is Jealousy or Envy (+, -). The emotions do not match and the two persons are not in harmony (+,-) .
When someone is ‘Unhappy’ and upon seeing him another person is also ‘Unhappy’ say after an accident or failure, it is Sympathy or Pity (-,-). The reactive emotion of another person vibrates with the emotion of the sufferer (-,-) but this is as well rare in this competitive world.
Instead, the rival or enemy will be ‘Happy’ because someone is a failure. This reactive emotion is Schadenfreude or Scorn (-,+). The two persons emotions do not vibrate (-,+).
It is commonly experienced that the least common reactive emotions are Joy (+,+) and Pity (-,-). Mostly, in this materialistic and competitive world people display ‘Jealousy’ or “Ershya” (+,-) and ‘Scorn’ or “ Dwesh” (-,+). Ershya and Dwesh are Hindi words meaning jealousy and scorn respectively.
In order to make this world a better place to live in, we could instead try to turn foes into friends by controlling the negative emotions and building the positive emotions consciously so that the two better emotions: Joy (+,+) and Pity (-,-) are displayed always in harmony with the other person in life.
Autobiography of a yogi:
https://www.ananda.org/free-inspiration/books/autobiography-of-a-yogi/
P.S. Interaction plays a great role in our interpersonal relationship. We can suppose being ‘Happy’ to be denoted by a plus sign (+) and being ‘Unhappy’ by a minus sign (-). Though, it is hard to find another person getting ‘Happy’ (+) when someone is ‘Happy’ (+) say after winning a huge lottery, it is called ‘”Mudita” or Joy (+,+). Mudita is a Hindi word used in Buddism to explain the feeling of joy. Herein, the ‘Happy’ emotion matches between the two persons (+,+) which is rare in this materialistic world.
The usual reactive emotion is ‘Unhappy’ after seeing someone ‘Happy’ which is Jealousy or Envy (+, -). The emotions do not match and the two persons are not in harmony (+,-) .
When someone is ‘Unhappy’ and upon seeing him another person is also ‘Unhappy’ say after an accident or failure, it is Sympathy or Pity (-,-). The reactive emotion of another person vibrates with the emotion of the sufferer (-,-) but this is as well rare in this competitive world.
Instead, the rival or enemy will be ‘Happy’ because someone is a failure. This reactive emotion is Schadenfreude or Scorn (-,+). The two persons emotions do not vibrate (-,+).
It is commonly experienced that the least common reactive emotions are Joy (+,+) and Pity (-,-). Mostly, in this materialistic and competitive world people display ‘Jealousy’ or “Ershya” (+,-) and ‘Scorn’ or “ Dwesh” (-,+). Ershya and Dwesh are Hindi words meaning jealousy and scorn respectively.
In order to make this world a better place to live in, we could instead try to turn foes into friends by controlling the negative emotions and building the positive emotions consciously so that the two better emotions: Joy (+,+) and Pity (-,-) are displayed always in harmony with the other person in life.
Autobiography of a yogi:
https://www.ananda.org/free-inspiration/books/autobiography-of-a-yogi/
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